{"id":59848,"date":"2017-02-07T10:17:52","date_gmt":"2017-02-07T10:17:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/?p=59848"},"modified":"2017-02-07T10:17:52","modified_gmt":"2017-02-07T10:17:52","slug":"to-get-her-into-the-mood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/to-get-her-into-the-mood\/","title":{"rendered":"To get her into the mood……"},"content":{"rendered":"

You want to get her in the mood\u2014make her horny? \u201cWhat you really want is to make her feel like it\u2019s safe for her to let go, like she can surrender to her sexual desires.\u201d Want to know if she\u2019s already aroused?<\/p>\n

Seduction starts long before any clothes come off.<\/p>\n

\u201cWomen are a lot slower to warm up, so if you start their engines early and often, you\u2019re more likely to score later,\u201d the experts say.<\/p>\n

If you want her to be in the mood later, start foreplay in the morning, before you leave for work.Don\u2019t overdo it\u2014the idea is to plant a seed in her mind and leave her wanting more, not annoy her with over-the-top romance while she\u2019s trying to do her makeup.<\/p>\n

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Keep it up throughout the day with a short, strategically-timed text message or phone call, and by the time you get home she\u2019ll be ready to jump you.This shouldn\u2019t come as a surprise, but it\u2019s hard for her to get in the mood when she\u2019s under a mountain of stress.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen we\u2019re under stress, we\u2019re primarily designed to not seek out pleasure,\u201d Thomas says. \u201cIt\u2019s a survival instinct. Something is wrong, so we have to fix it!\u201d<\/p>\n

It sounds simple enough, but Thomas says the key is to help her de-stress in a constructive way\u2014not just help her check off boxes on her endless to-do list.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf she says she can\u2019t relax because she has to clean the bathroom, that\u2019s not necessarily your cue to clean the bathroom,\u201d Thomas explains. \u201cIt probably wouldn\u2019t hurt, but once you\u2019re done she\u2019ll remember that she has to clean the kitchen, and so forth. It\u2019s less about cleaning the house, and more about helping her see that a clean house doesn\u2019t need to take priority over the relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n

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So pursue that track with her\u2014you\u2019re happy to clean up once you\u2019ve had some quiet time with her.Arguments don\u2019t make for a very sexy atmosphere , so would it kill you to just let it go?<\/p>\n

\u201cBeing right is sometimes the obstacle to being happy, and often the obstacle to romance,\u201d. \u201cIf there\u2019s the potential for argument on the table, just ask yourself if this really is the hill you want to die on.\u201dObviously, if you\u2019re arguing about something important\u2014such as your relationship\u2014it\u2019s another story.<\/p>\n

But if it\u2019s just a heated discussion about politics, or world peace, or pirates versus ninjas, then giving in to her point of view, at least temporarily, will do wonders for keeping her in the mood.<\/p>\n

You want her to initiate sex more often? Don\u2019t shut her down when she tries\u2014even if her attempt is pretty half-assed.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe first time, or times, she initiates, she\u2019s going to be nervous that you might reject her,\u201d Thomas says. \u201cFor the most part, women are not used to being rejected when it comes to sex, so it\u2019s really important that you do not, under any circumstances, give any indication that she needs to do it better, or initiate more often when she\u2019s in the middle of initiating.\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s basic behavioral conditioning, Thomas explains: She initiates, you are super-positive about that, and she\u2019ll do it again and again.<\/p>\n

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Be generous in bed, and you will find that sexual success is yours.\u201cShe wants to feel good in bed, and if she does, she\u2019ll want to please you\u2014and have more sex,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n

If you haven\u2019t figured out what she likes in bed, you should make that a priority, stat! Luckily, it\u2019s as simple as asking her, providing you ask her when you\u2019re not between the sheets.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you think she\u2019s holding back, coax it out of her by opening the conversation when you\u2019re not in bed,\u201dexpert suggests. \u201cThat way, she\u2019ll feel like the pressure is off.\u201d Ultimately, your goal is to have as much sex as possible, expert says.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You want to get her in the mood\u2014make her horny? \u201cWhat you really want is to make her feel like it\u2019s safe for her to let go, like she can surrender to her sexual desires.\u201d Want to know if she\u2019s already aroused? Seduction starts long before any clothes come off. \u201cWomen are a lot slower […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":59880,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29598,2],"tags":[30890,30889,10027,19783,7588,30886,12635,30887,3161,30893,30885,30891,30892,30888],"class_list":["post-59848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-health","category-top-stories","tag-arguments","tag-bathroom","tag-bedroom","tag-better-sex","tag-clothes","tag-conditioning","tag-keeping","tag-positive","tag-sex","tag-sex-as-possible","tag-sexual-success","tag-to-get-her-into-the-mood","tag-ultimately","tag-wonders"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/questions-to-ask-your-girlfriend-7.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59848"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59848\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/59880"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greattelangaana.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}